Biking and Stretching

September 27th, 2009

The best way for me to get cardio exercise in the hot weather is by riding my bike. 

I have to stretch before I go out for a ride. sistasizing-bike-photos-001 Now, I have taken to riding at night with my helmet on and the lights on the front and back of my bike.  It’s all good! At least I am doing something to get back on track. Yesterday I went to 24 hour fitness. There I was able to stretch my arm and lift a few weights. This has helped my right arm that has lymphedema. The heat makes it swell, so I try not to go out too much in the heat of the day.  If you find that you don’t want to walk or run, then I really suggest a bike ride. It’s so much more easy on the knees.

Riding a bike is good for the heart.

I’m Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

Liberating Hair Cut - Styled to Workout!

September 9th, 2009

 

I knew  as soon as the last festival was over I was going to cut my hair down into a short hairstyle.  I drove home from Eureka, CA, sat in my chair and asked for the clippers. Of course, no one wanted to give them to me cause they did not want me to cut it.  I asked Lesa to cut it, and she said “No way!” I told Jay to find the scissors, and he said he didn’t know where they were. Lesa continued by saying that if I was going to do it, then I should let a professional do it.  So the next day, I called my regular glamour beautician - Brandee at the Rare Touch in Fremont, California. I set up an appointment for today at 11:00 a.m. I am just now getting home at 4:00 p.m. and my hair looks flawless, even being short.

What I like about Brandee is that she hears me out first before she makes her moves. She did not want to cut all my hair off.  Her way of getting around it was to ask me to look at the books in her salon. I had no clue there were so many ways to get one’s hair cut in to a short style.  I looked through several books and came up with a few styles - all leading to a major hair cut.  The last time I had such a hair cut, it was when I was sick with stagnation in my body (cancer).  I went in and got it cut just before I started getting the chemotherapy treatments. I didn’t want to face it coming out naturally because of the drugs. That time I was sad and remorseful. This time I was pure happy that it was going on the floor.

Why? Because it’s liberating! 

Everyday and every time I have had to leave my house, I would have to get Lesa or Jay to pull my hair back into a ponytail, put gel gook on it, and then tie it with a rubber band. It was a big co-dependent beat down!  The reason I needed them to do it was because of my right arm  that was affected by the surgery that I had 6 years ago. Because of a condition called Lymphedema (swelling), I can only raise my arm 75 degrees high. Most people don’t recognize my disability cause I can still raise my arms to hold my microphone, play my tambourine and sing Hallelujah!  However,  I am not able to reach to the back of my head and tie my own hair. The style on the cover of my CD is totally glamour and cute. It was certainly not practical for working out, going to school, rehearsals, and other meetings.

I told Brandee that I wanted to start swimming, walking, riding my bike again without depending upon the manual dexterity of Lesa or Jay. I love them, but I don’t want to burden them with the daily grain of either homing home from work so I can go out, or waking up early so I can look presentable just to exercise.

No excuses now!

Cutting my hair is liberating! I’m Free!

I look a bit older now because I need to lose weight in my face. I will!  Hang in there with me. Transformation does not happen in a day. I’m breaking out the hoop earrings and lipstick:-) 

I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

My 3 Hour Healing Journey

September 9th, 2009

On Friday, August 22, 2009, I started out around 11:00 a.m. on my 3 hour drive from Pleasanton, California to get a healing massage from my therapist - Georgia Dow in Grass Valley, California. Her practice is in her elegant home that sits up in the woods, high on a hill, amongst several thousand redwood, evergreen and eucalyptus trees.  I scheduled this treatment long before I knew I would be writing about it.  However, it’s perfectly fitting to share my experience.  Normally, I drive in the fast, left lane because I want to pass other drivers and get where I am going faster. Today, I intentionally moved over into the slow, right lane.  While in this lane, I noticed that a lot of the automobiles were older and the drivers were seemingly calm and collected.  I turned off my radio that was playing Alicia Keyes - R&B music, and just focused on my free flowing thoughts.  Slowing down allowed me to take in the scenic views.  As I drove along highway 580 east through each suburban town, I noticed the small evergreen shrubs sporadically piercing through the dry, golden-grass hills.  I figured, “Why rush to a healing massage session?” “What would be the point?”

On my drive up, I decided to take a brief detour to my cousin Christopher Clay’s house in Sacramento, California.  We grew up together in the hot and humid town of Gary, Indiana. As little 6 and 7 year old children, we use to run around in our white cotton panties with no shoes on, and no shirts over our brown bodies.  Chris and I go way back to the days of singing in the Baptist church choir as kids.  I had been planning a short visit with him, so he could demonstrate the benefits of Kangan alkaline water to me.  Plus, we were going to discuss the business opportunity associated with having the filter that makes it.  I admitted to him that I am somewhat of a “water snob”. I am very selective about the water I drink. That’s because as a professional singer, I drink so much water, that I rule out a lot of it, as soon as it hits my tongue.  I acquired a good habit of being hydrated, and drinking water is a personal must.  I originally told Chris that I was not interested in the water because I buy lots of the “reverse osmosis” bottled waters - Aquafina and Dasani.  However, he gave me 5 gallons about 8 weeks ago, and surprisingly enough, I fell in love with it.  I had an invasive surgery 5 years ago which causes me pain due to swelling in my right arm.  After only one day of drinking this deliciously smooth water, I noticed a change for the better, and the lack of swelling in my affected arm.  I even felt remarkably more flexible overall in my body.  

Knowing this, Chris promised me 5 more gallons of this Kangan water, if I dropped by on the way to my therapist’s house. My only problem was that I under estimated the time to get to his house.  I thought the drive time between Sacramento and Grass Valley was 20 minutes. Its at least 60 minutes of driving on a clear day. Plus, the fact that I was driving at 1:30 p.m. on a Friday was a traffic issue.  Now to acerbate the problem, I unintentionally over shot the exit and had to drive back to South Sacramento get to his house.  Being the typical Taurus “the bull” female that I am, I was determined to get that water.  Remembering that I had mentioned the water to Georgia over the phone, I wanted to fulfill the commitment to get her some as well. So I made the trek back to his house.  While there, I looked at his DVD presentation, while he bottled my 5 gallon container.  He cooked a light meal of tofu with yellow Indian curry, chopped fresh cherry tomatoes, and served me my first veggie burger.  I was impressed that he made that dish.  

Since the trip was health oriented, I was motivated to purchase the costly Kangan filter that creates the water.  This was a timely detour, and a good investment.  Leaving Chris’ house to get to Georgia’s was stop and go traffic causing  me to drive at 10-25 miles per hour.  Georgia called me on my cell phone.  She had been waiting and wanted an estimated time of my arrival.  She needed to run a couple of errands. Embarrassed by my lackadaisical driving, as soon as the traffic cleared, I got in the fast lane and moseyed on up the road.

Shortly after I arrived to the house, Georgia came with bags and a big smile saying “welcome”.  I immediately gave her a couple gallons of water.   After putting her groceries and the water away in to the refrigerator, she escorted me to her healing room and invited me unto her massage table. There, we spent 90 minutes in a room that had soft blue paintings of angels on the walls, opened windows allowing fresh air,  trees in a distance and Kwan Yin Buddha sculptures sitting outside each window, offering a symbol of peace and tranquility.  She searched through her collection of CDs until she found some pleasant instrumental music. As soon as she touched my feet, I slowly fell asleep with a whisper of birds chirping, and the music playing in the background. I am sure that she did a healing treatment, but if you asked me what it was, I could not tell you. I went into a sleep so deep that I woke  up by hearing myself snore. Before I departed to drive my three hours back home, I sat on the veranda overlooking a sea of trees, reflecting upon my day, new water, massage and how good I felt. To top it off,  Georgia cooked a fish dinner and included the Kangan water. She mentioned the difference and appreciated the taste as well. She suggested that I notice the way I feel in my body for the next 48 to 72 hours. I did notice that I felt stronger My knees were not aching and my back felt relief.  All around this was a three hour drive that was well worth it. What an amazing healing journey!

I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

Sistasizing on the Road

August 27th, 2009

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I was in Edmonton Alberta, Canada for the International Blues Festival 2009 and stayed at the Chateaux Louis Hotel with all the other musicians. It was so much fun and excitement with great camaraderie there with Deanna Bogart, Kenny Neal, Tommy Castro and Chubby Carrier.  Since I went in early, I decided to take advantage of the exercise room cause even when I am on the road, I still have to do my Sistasizing! I did 20 minutes on the bike to warm up, 20 minutes of weights which consisted of 30 lb weights with 3 sets of 15 reps each. Then I did 20 minutes of treadmill as a warm down. Afterwords, I drank lots of water and chilled in the lobby with my friends. Why? Cause I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

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All Dolled Up - I Gotta Move!

August 20th, 2009

So I have to leave tomorrow for the Edmomton Blues Festival 2009.  Just got my hair done cause this morning was the only time mya-16-09-36 hair stylist could do it.  I am all dolled up and wondering if I will mess up my hair, but i have got to exercise. Okay! I will pen this hair up, put it in a wrap, pull up my collar, get my shoes on and do my walk.  I have got to walk everyday. Everyday to stay on my sistasizng program. I have to perform a 75 minute set in front of thousands on people. You go Marine! Hub to!

Where are my gyms?

I am Sista Monica & I am Sistasizing!

Beating The Sun!

August 19th, 2009

Hey Everybody!

I am up earlier now to get my sistasizing in before the sun comes out.  Gotta go beat the sun!

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Well…. I am back from the walk. It was tough again today, but I did it anyway!  Still chiming in on Alicia Keys.

It took longer cause I did not walk fast. I was told once by a breathing coach that I need to walk to the size I am. 

That means not rushing. I am pacing myself so I don’t have to stop so much.

My eating is getting under control as well. More fruits, lots of water, and veggies.

I will walk again before rehearsal tonight with the band.

I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

The scene of the crime! Quick Recovery!

August 18th, 2009

Today, I went back to the Armador Park in Pleasanton, CA. That is where  I left off a month ago when I was walking 6 days a week. I wanted to see how far I set myself back.   I put my IPOD and headset on to Alicia Keys - “Falling”.  I thought a slow groove would help me with pacing, and it did.  I walked the same path, the same curves, with the same trees offering shade.  I found myself speeding up at times. That is when I got winded, and eventually needed to stop for a few seconds.  I took some deep breaths and kept going.  I admit that it was a labored walk.  Not like the joy of walking that I experienced before I took the break from doing it.  I could kick myself.  Well… cause my knees, back and body felt challenged.  My lack of sistasizing led to poor eating choices!   And honey, when I am good, I am really good!  But, when I am bad, I am ol  soooo bad! @#$%

There is this bench towards the end of the walk. When I first started, I would stop there and take a 2 minute break.  Today, it was a 4 minute break.  The heat was scorcing, and my body feeling the difference so I just sat there. Finally, I got up and finished the entire walk. I found myself  diving into the car as I approached it.  There I was.  I started at 11:45 and ended at 12: 12. It’s hard on the body and mind when you stop and start sistasizing. It’s best to do something , even it is is just a little bit everyday.  That is my plan.

There I was sweating, deep breathing, leaning into the car. Then I sat on the fender for 3 minutes. I opened the car door and was elated that it took only 3 minutes to recover.  My back was fine, my knees felt better the longer I walked, my breathing actually got better the longer the walk. Then I was recovered - done!

in 3 minutes!

I’m back!

I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

 

 

 

Unfortunately, that is what happened.  I’m human!  Anyway, the big thing that happened was that it was so hot out. My 15 minute walk has now gone back up to 22 minutes, with 4 short stops. But I did it!  The best nws of it all is that I had a really quick recovery. That is important! That means that I can do this twice a day for the next 5 days before my festival in Edmongton and get right back to my hub 2 shape. 

So here I go!

1 Step Forward - 2 Steps Back -3 Steps forward

August 10th, 2009

It’s a journey!

This is my bad girl confession.  Yep! I got off track. I have been backsliding.  Today, I am doing something about it.  A month ago, I hadiwomen-walking-briskly1 so much more energy.  It does not take long to get out of shape. It took me 6 weeks to get into shape, so I have to get back on my job - sistasizing.   July 8th, I left for the Ontario Blues Festival to sing with Ben Harper in much better shape.   While travelling, I loss focus. I didn’t have the computer to blog so I cheated myself.  It was hard to get back on track mentally. 

Tonight, I went to see the “Julie and Julia” movie about a blogger who did the Julia Childs’ recipe book and blogged about it. It reminded me of the accountability that comes along with blogging, and how intimate it can be share your thoughts and actions. Lately, not blogging, was like getting away with something. However, it did not serve anyone to be away, not on my sistasizing program. I can feel the difference in not working out.  I feel sluggish this morning, but I am going out to Armador Park in Pleasanton to do my walk. I had gotten it down pretty good. My time went from from starting it at 30 minutes to down to 17 minutes. I won’t be hard on myself cause this is a journey.  Hopefully, I can do it in 25 minutes. The main thing is starting. Okay! here I go!

I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing again!

Tears and Fears

July 27th, 2009

I watched Star Jones the other day on Oprah and thought Oh My God! She was at 300 lbs and lost 150 of it. She spoke of the emotional trama and adjustments that she had to make to her everyday routine. Just the thought that she was getting so much attention. The notion that others would be interested in her. Danny B - my piano player and I always think of writing a song called I’m invisible.  It’s about a person who is overweight and not visible to the public. It’s probably my story. The only difference is that I am very visible. I am visible when I am on stage. If you don’t know me other than that maybe you might think I am iinvisible.

Star Jones spoke of the fears of becoming so noticeable. I know that as a big girl, I often think I will be so much better at things when I lose all this weight. But then there is that thought or idea of being afraid of all the attention. I do think that people should do therapy before the go too far in losing. Some of that weight is emotional and needs to be tended to.

 

I am walking in the heat today. Then I will go to the gym. Sticking with it!

 

I’m Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!

Thought Re-focus!

July 24th, 2009

A few people have come up to me and asked me about Sistasizing. They say they see the difference in my energy level. Some even see the slight change in appearance. They say that they are going to start.  Yes! I am still doing it.  I will be for the rest of my life. Sistasizing is a way of life, a shift in attitude about my health and fitness, a quality of life that makes me feel better, and most of all - it works!  You know the old saying “You can take a horse to the water, but you sure can’t make them drink”.  I have people in my life right now who are constantly telling me how tired they are and how their knees hurt, back hurts, and its hard to stand up, but they are doing nothing about the challenge they place on their bodies.  I say  “in due time, they will either poop or get off the pot”.  I know, a person has to be in the proper frame on mind to get healthy, fit and lose weight. I had to stop feeling sorry for themselves, do something physical and make better choices when I eat. That is what I did and I am better for it. Sure I mess up. I fall down, but I get right back on the saddle and keep on working out. Like the other day, I ate some pizza. I loved it going down, but honey I paid for it afterwards. I have not had that kinda grease in my body in weeks. It made my stomach hurt and I stayed up all night trying to digest it.

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I keep on walking, and dancing, and singing and yes even kickboxing. I am moving to lose!  Thought refocus!  If I even think that I am going off track. I stop and think. Sometimes I do it on my walk. I stop! I go and sit down and meditate on what I want to feel like and look like and move like. I think about the size clothes I want to wear, and the events I want to go to with ease.  I think about the benefit of going into the grocery store and making my own choice now. I think about how close I am to tying my own shoes.  Each little thing I do I mark it down as another little milestone.  So when I fall down I get right back up again!  Come along! Sistasizing is a way of life!

I am Sista Monica and I am Sistasizing!


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